poor
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1. lacking sufficient money to live at a standard considered comfortable or normal in a society…
2. worse than is usual, expected, or desirable; of a low or inferior standard or quality…
3. (of a person) considered to be deserving of pity or sympathy…”
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Why define It This Way?
It seems to me that all of these definitions of the poor, when applied to humans, is very subjective. Who determines if a person is “poor”. “Poor” seems to only reveal itself in relation to something else.
Perhaps we use it to define, legally, who deserves more government money. Furthermore, this just seems to be a way to redistribute government money. Before our family had to qualify for government college loans, we did just fine. Now, to those around us, we are “poor”. Yet we make too much money to qualify as “poor”. There is just no winning.
One definition of poverty is “the state of being inferior in quality or insufficient in amount.” So, who determines what the “state of being inferior in quality or insufficient in amount” is. Who determines when someone is poor? People are not inferior. In my opinion, God created every person and God does not create something that is inferior.
Bill Gates’ Definition
I first started thinking about this when I read Bill Gates’ article: “What’s It Like to Live on $2 a Day”. The article starts out – ‘”It’s the lack of shoes I remember most.” Oh my gosh. Is that how we define poor, by lack of shoes? My grandkids love to walk around without shoes. Why would that be so memorable?
How I Define The Word?
If there is nothing to compare to, there is no “poor”.
Water, food, air, shelter, and health determine whether someone is poor. In my opinion, we don’t need money to access these at all. Money is only one way to attain these necessities. Any person who assumes that money is the be-all and end-all of life will soon be disappointed.
Redefine Rich and Poor
“But the greatest of these is love.” With love, one can be rich beyond imagination.
Perhaps I can adjust that definition. An adult who has no right to make their own decisions is poor. There are people today who seem to be extremely rich. The riches actually belong to someone else.
What Do You Think?
Have you ever imagined that someone you think of as poor doesn’t see themselves that way at all? Perhaps your attempt to “save” them isn’t really welcome. Perhaps they don’t think they need saving. Is your attempt to “save” someone just causing problems? Did they ask for your help? If no, what are you really doing?
If someone is not like you, do you think they are poor? That’s not what I consider a good way to determine someone’s worth or value. Rather, do they have enough to survive? Food, water, air, shelter – these are the things that determine someone’s wealth, not money. To survive well, someone needs personal freedoms. Looking like you or acting like you doesn’t even fit in the picture.
Examples
Maternal Grandmother
My grandmother gave birth to four girls. She made dresses out of flour sacks; sewed quilts; raised flowers and fruit trees; fixed flower arrangements for church, visited neighbors; and canned all sorts of things. She and my grandfather didn’t have the best, but they never went without either. Someone decided they needed to donate something to her – maybe Meals on Wheels. It made her feel old and unable to take care of herself. She may have been gracious. But the gifting was for the givers, not for her. This is not to say that donating is a bad thing. But at least know something about the people you are donating to. She lived to be ninety-seven, and her sour pickles were magnificent.
George Harris
When Andy and I had the store in Atoka, there was an old black man who walked to the store most days. He sat on the porch and came inside occasionally to get some chewing tobacco. One day I picked Mr. Harris up in my truck so he wouldn’t have to walk. He proceeded to tell me that picking people up on the side of the road could be dangerous. He scared me a bit, but Mr. Harris was nothing to be afraid of. After that, he continued walking. I never picked him up again. George Harris lived to be over a hundred years old.
I’m not saying don’t do good things for people. But please don’t look down on others. Get to know them before making decisions for them.
Did you ever consider that some people don’t think like you? Some people don’t want the same things that you do. Maybe someone does not value the same things that you do. Have you ever even considered such things?
A Story about Wealth
Rich Dad. Wise Son.
One day a very wealthy father took his son on a trip to the country for the sole purpose of showing his son what it was like to be poor. They spent a few days and nights on the farm of what would be considered a very poor family.
After their return from the trip, the father asked his son how he liked the trip.
“It was great, Dad,” the son replied.
“Did you see how poor people can be?” the father asked.
“Oh Yeah,” said the son.
“So what did you learn from the trip?” asked the father.
The son answered, “I saw that we have one dog and they had four. We have a pool that reaches to the middle of our garden and they have a creek that has no end. We have imported lanterns in our garden and they have the stars at night. Our patio reaches to the front yard and they have the whole horizon.”
“We have a small piece of land to live on, and they have fields that go beyond our sight. We have servants who serve us, but they serve others.”
“We buy our food, but they grow theirs. We have walls around our property to protect us; they have friends to protect them.”
The boy’s father was speechless.
Then his son added, “It showed me just how poor we really are.”
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